We all want it, we all have done so many things to obtain it and to experience it but do we really know what it is?
1 Corinthians 13:13 – Three things will last forever–faith, hope, and love–and the greatest of these is LOVE.
There are three types of love. A lot of people confuse the three and think that the type of LOVE they have is something different than what the Bible meant when it talked about the God Kind of LOVE. You can be the biggest philanthropist, serve on many boards of great organizations, work your fingers to the bone or recite scripture after scripture but if you do not have LOVE, the Bible says it doesn’t matter, we’re useless. I’m on a journey to exhibit and express the highest form of LOVE to everyone I come across. Whether it is an intimate relationship, someone I meet at the store or someone who cut me off in traffic, I am determined to have a strong love walk. GOD is love and if He lives in us, why shouldn’t we be LOVE as well?
1) The first type of LOVE is known as EROS. Eros love is an erotic love. It is based on a physical attraction that leads to strong feelings and usually happens in the first stages of a romantic relationship. Eros is passionate and longing. The Modern Greek word “erotas” means “Intimate Love”. The term erotic is derived from eros. We’ve all heard the term “love at first sight.” Eros loves gives us the feeling of being IN love. Eros is a natural feeling, however, it can cause us to lose focus of getting to know someone on a deeper level and make us think that we truly have something more than superficial. Eros is more about what can be done for you instead of a giving type of love that can benefit the other person.
2) The second type of LOVE is known as PHILIA. This is the love between friends & family. Philia connects us with a strong bond between people we share a common bond or activity with. When people in a relationship start off as friends, the bond is stronger and the marriage has been proven to last because PHILIA is like the glue that holds people together. It is not based on merely attraction or “what’s in it for me” but it is based on a vested interest and responsibility to the growth and development of the other person. It is a give and take type of love.
3) The highest form of LOVE is known as AGAPE. Agape is the GOD kind of LOVE. Love that is unconditional, stands the test of time and is 100% selfless. It is all about “what can I do for YOU” regardless of the circumstances. It gives no matter what even if it is not benefited in any type of way. This is the type of love we all should strive to develop and nurture within ourselves in order to have the strongest friendships and relationships. This is the type of LOVE the world needs to see the God in us so that they may be drawn to Him.
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. — John 3:16 God knew that we would be doomed to eternal damnation if He did not send His son to die for our sins. We did nothing to deserve it or earn it and sometimes we forget just how much He loves us but He does it anyway. The Bible says that NOTHING can separate us from the LOVE of God. Jesus was the ultimate sacrifice and display of LOVE and we should look to that sacrifice daily in order to be an example of God in the Earth.
The true definition for Agape love is found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8. It says: 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails.
Let’s do a LOVE check to see if what we’ve been expressing and displaying on a daily basis stands up to what we are taught.
We are spiritual beings that have a soul (mind, will & emotions) and live in a body. Agape love, the highest form of love is SPIRITUAL, Philia love is based on a MENTAL loyalty to your family member or friend and Eros love is a purely PHYSICAL love. We will experience all the types of love during our lives, but isn’t it AWESOME to know that we have access to the strongest, most powerful, in-exhaustible gift of the God-kind of Love?
“For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 8:37)